Dear Fancy: The Fussy, Finicky Relatives; The Friends Who Won't RSVP - Jezebel

JezebelDear Fancy: The Fussy, Finicky Relatives; The Friends Who Won't RSVPJezebelWould it be more appropriate to plan a two-part dinner followed by coffee, tea, and dessert and request that all who will not be able to order off the menu meet us afterward? I would hate to make a relative feel uncomfortable but do not want the meal ...